On the Care and Feeding of Spirits

Giving Thanks for Family -- Seen and Unseen

Dear Traveler,

Thanksgiving is a time for returning to the nest -- more of us travel long distances on this annual pilgrimage to home and hearth than at any other time of year.

My Thanksgivings are always spent surrounded by family, both seen and unseen. I travel from almost as far south in America as it's possible to get -- Orlando, FL -- to almost as far north as it's possible to get -- Boston, MA. Sometimes it’s just me and my parents, and we travel to my aunt's house to have a large Thanksgiving dinner with three generations of her family. Sometimes my brother and his wife, and my sister and her family, converge on us, and we have a houseful of people large and small devour my mother's home-cooked feast. Either way, the holiday is invariably about family more than food. The thing we most often give thanks for is that we were all able to come together for yet another year.

My house is a bit more unusual than others, I guess. I've been told that most Americans don't know much about their ancestors or their heritage, and can rarely name anyone from further back than their grandparents' generation. But my mother has filled the house with pictures of our ancestors -- my teenage grandmother lined up with her 6 siblings, shortest to tallest; my grandfather in his WW1 uniform or with his twin brother; my great grandparents in late 19th century garb. These pictures cluster in a shrine right at the top of the stairs, and also cover the mantelpiece over the fireplace.

In our family, the women have always been the keepers of the family history. Sitting around the kitchen table or driving to our destination, they pass oral tradition down from generation to generation through stories told over the holidays. My mother marks each homecoming by drawing her grandchildren’s attention to the pictures around the living room. Naming each person, she makes them memorable by telling a little story about them. Stories about people in the pictures spawn memories of other, older generations who are not pictured. They become part of the rich ancestral tapestry too.

The result of all this is that our house is always filled with many, many more family members than just those who are physically present. Memories of generations past build up an atmosphere thick with history, interconnectedness, and love. Older members of the family pass on, but they are still felt as a palpable presence as we gather from all over the country to celebrate together.

I don't know about you, but I cherish this feeling -- this sense that I am surrounded by love, and don't really need to miss those who have passed on, because they are still most definitely with me. They always feel especially close at times like Thanksgiving, for all the reasons stated above.

Would you like to feel this way?

Would you like to cultivate a continuing relationship with beloved family members who have passed on?

Would you like to take your place in the web of interconnectedness that creates a family's heritage?

Then read on...

On the Care and Feeding of Spirits

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I wrote On the Care and Feeding of Spirits because I wanted people to share with me the wonder of knowing we are never alone. I want you all to know that the inner world and the unseen world both provide a richness of experience that makes ordinary reality pall in comparison.

This is not because physical reality is not awe-inspiringly complex in its own right. Our universe is a stunning, breathtaking, beautiful, wondrous place! It's just that once you start to perceive and experience the added depth of our truly multi-dimensional universe, our day-to-day three dimensional reality seems flat in comparison.

I want to empower you by sharing my process for connecting with this unseen world, and alleviate any fears you may have about making that connection.

I want to show you just how high your spirit can soar without ever leaving your body!

The feelings and experiences that I have had because of working with spirit are beyond what paltry human words can express. Bliss, ecstasy, joy, oneness, belonging, wisdom -- these words don't even come close to describing what you can achieve using the techniques I've put down in this book.

How can I not share something that has so enriched my life? How could I not want to make everyone around me feel this good?

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to find out how much bigger your Universe is than you ever knew before. We all want to expand our horizons, surpass our physical limitations, and be reassured that there is more beyond the veil; this book is GUARANTEED to make you more aware of yourself and the subtle signals of the magickal world all around you – once you have read and worked with this book, you will NEVER BE THE SAME!


If you want to contact deceased loved ones, meet your own personal spirit guide, improve or enhance your connection to spirit and deity, or even create your own servant on the spirit plane, On the Care and Feeding of Spirits can show you how – quickly, simply and safely, with easy-to-follow, step-by-step instructions.

To see whether or not what I'll reveal
will work for you, ask yourself these 15 questions:
Question #1: Do you have anyone close to you who has passed away recently, that you miss and would like to connect to?
Question #2: Do you spend time wondering if there really is life after death, or if angels, faeries, deities and spirits exist?
Question #3: Have you ever wished you could have known ancestors who passed away long ago, that you only know through family stories?
Question #4: Could you use the help of a spirit familiar, finding jobs and money for you, or protecting you or your loved ones?
Question #5: Have you ever wished for a spirit lover, or experienced a realistic dream that made you feel like you had had an encounter with one?
Question #6: Have you ever tried to see beyond the veil but gave up due to sheer frustration or lack of info on what to do next?
Question #7: Do you think it's too hard to contact the spirit world or that you just don’t have the “special talent” required?
Question #8: Do you have any idea what “mediumship” really is?
Question #9: Have you ever had a problem with a poltergeist, mischievous spirit, or otherwise unwanted invisible “guest”?
Question #10: Do you ever wonder if your child’s “imaginary friend” is really imaginary, or more real than you thought?
Question #11: Would you like to be able to travel to any place, any time, and any spiritual plane in the universe, all without leaving the comfort of your own home?
Question #12: Have you ever wanted to practice magick or ritual with a group, but didn’t feel comfortable with any of the people available in your area?
Question #13: Have you ever wanted to boost your magickal or spiritual practice and give it that extra spiritual oomph that working with another entity could provide?
Question #14: Would you like to make contact with your guardian angel and start a personal, deep and meaningful relationship with that entity?
Question #15: Would you like to experience what it feels like to be a god?

If you answered YES to even ONE of these questions then On the Care and Feeding of Spirits can help!

Whether You're Just Getting Your Feet Wet in the Spiritual Realm Or An Expert Ready to Grow & Expand Your Spiritual Horizons, On the Care and Feeding of Spirits Has More Than 300 Tools, Recommendations, Resources and "Step By Step How To's" To Help You Along the Way!

Whatever your interest in the spirit realm, there’s one thing and only one thing that is guaranteed to give you confidence and power, and that’s KNOWLEDGE!

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This book started out as handouts for a workshop I was asked to teach on this subject. After writing over a hundred pages, I realized the topic is too rich and deserved to become a full-length instructional book. The advantage of this for you is that, if I were to offer this material as a two-hour workshop, I would have to charge at least $50 per person for my time and energy. Because you are ordering here, you get the content for just $19.95 (Note: for the holiday season only, I am marking the price down to $14.95; that's a 25% discount! So ORDER NOW before the discount expires), and get all kinds of bonus materials to boot!.

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Later on in this letter I’ll explain how others have used and benefited from these tools. But right now, a word of caution...

First, I run into more and more atheists these days who think I'm crazy for suggesting that it is possible to acknowledge and interact in a practical fashion with deities or spirits. If you don't believe such a thing is possible, that's fine. It's healthy to be skeptical and question anything that you haven't experienced for yourself.

For such people, please allow me to recommend you do some reading on Jungian psychology, and the new anthropological science of memetics. If you are not already familiar with these scientific disciplines and relatively new paradigms, I think you will find that they explain a lot about human psychology and experience. Studying these subjects will absolutely enrich your life. It will give you a whole new perspective on personal experience of spirit, and the power and usefulness of working with archetypes -- even if you don't believe in their "actual" existence outside of the human mind.

I have books on these and other related topics listed in the bibliography of On the Care and Feeding of Spirits, and if you give my ideas a second glance with those frameworks in mind I think you will find they are not so crazy after all.

Second, I recognize that some non-atheists carry too much religious baggage with them from previous paths to feel comfortable working with spirits. These people choose to buy into the alarmist slant that insists this kind of work is somehow dangerous. I have news for you. All magick is dangerous, including Christian prayer. That is because practicing any kind of magick, prayer, or meditation will change you completely, body, mind, and spirit. The person you are the day before you set out on the path of the Great Work will soon be dead, replaced by an Awakened being.

If that frightens you, and you have that much willingness to allow others to control your mind and dictate your spiritual path, then get out of magick. Now. You'll be much happier in some New Age fluffy-bunny cult somewhere, where enlightenment can be bought by turning all your worldly possessions over to some guru.

However, most people would consider becoming more enlightened to be a GOOD thing. These people recognize that the child they once were had to be replaced by the adult they are now. After a few years of working with the ideas in this book, you will look back on who you are today with fond memories, but nevertheless still be grateful that you have "grown up" even more. Your world will be so much bigger, your sense of your own power and abilities so much greater, that you will never want to go back to the ignorance and blindness you are currently living with.

This is not a book for people who are content to take orders and hate to think for themselves. This is a book for grown ups. In all my writing I encourage my readers to come up with their own ideas and methods of working, because THAT'S WHAT TEACHING IS ALL ABOUT! Teaching is not meant to make a student parrot back facts and figures. Teaching is supposed to pass on a method for acquiring facts and figures and analyzing their meaning and value. The entire text of On the Care and Feeding of Spirits teaches methods for acquiring knowledge and wisdom on your own. It's designed to guide you toward powerful experiences, not just tell you what others have done so you can live vicariously through their stories!

Are wisdom and knowledge sometimes painful? Do they sometimes make you acknowledge things you've been fighting your whole life to avoid? Of course! That's what growing pains are. But do you stop growing just because it's sometimes painful?

Well, do you?

I know some people do, but if you've read this far, somehow I think you're not one of them.

As far as the so-called "dangers" of contacting spirit are concerned (running into something nasty, being possessed when you don't want to be, etc.) believe me when I say that nothing in spirit can EVER harm you unless you willingly allow it to, and the techniques I teach in this book will make this eminently clear. Once you start using the tools I give you, you will quickly become confident in your ability to protect yourself and never worry when working with spirit ever again!

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About the Author:

I'm an Eclectic Goth Wiccan who moved to Florida from New York City in 1999. I've been studying metaphysical subjects all my life, and I've taught many, many courses and workshops on various magickal subjects at the Florida Pagan Gathering, the Goddess Faire, Dragonspyre, Avalon, All World Acres, the Sage Center, the Blue Lotus Center, The Witching Hour (2005's Harry Potter Symposium held in Salem, MA) and Phoenix Rising (2007's Harry Potter Symposium held in New Orleans, LA) . In March of 2007 I was the Wiccan representative on an ACLU panel on religious freedom held at Embry Riddle Aeronautical University in Daytona Beach, FL.

I run my own business, Persephone's Haven ("Lifestyle Support for Daywalkers and Dark Denizens"), a business designed to serve Goths, Pagans, and all others who walk between worlds and need a safe place to be themselves. On the Care and Feeding of Spirits is my second publication from Persephone's Haven.

I have a Bachelor's degree in Music, Theatre and the Honors program from Hunter College, CUNY, with a minor in Classical Studies, and a Bachelor's in Anthropology from Rollins College as well. I live with my sister and niece, 3 cats, 1 fish, and the occasional wolf spider. You can contact me at Persephone's Haven.

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I promised I would explain how others have used and benefited from the tools in this book.

One woman, a musician who attended my class on the subject and bought the book, had lost her husband, also a musician. Her friends, family, and therapist all told her the “healthy” thing to do was to put him behind her and move on. But she still felt him close. Sometimes she even felt he was playing through her. She wanted to maintain that connection, but felt guilty about going against the well-meaning advice of those around her. She had some of his instruments in a corner. She just couldn’t bring herself to get rid of them.

I told her how to set up a special, dedicated area in one room, in memory of her husband. She should decorate it with objects that belonged to him or that meant something to both of them, such as wedding photos. I explained how she could use that focus to connect with him whenever she wished. She would feel his love surrounding her. The connection she already felt would be enhanced. It would let him come through more easily when she was playing music. They could continue to create beauty together.

That night reports came to me from independent sources about a woman who had played so beautifully that she seemed to have a glow around her. The music and her mannerisms had changed as she laid down one instrument and picked up another (an instrument she had told me was her husband’s specialty). Her eyes had glowed, I was told. She played with a fire and passion that electrified her audience.

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A young couple told me they had a mischievous spirit in the house. It didn’t seem malevolent, so they didn’t want to get rid of it. They just wanted to learn how to communicate with it so they could get it to behave a bit better.

I told them a bit about different kinds of fairy folk. I also referred them to the section of the book that would show them how to open a line of communication with their particular spirit. I suggested leaving an occasional sweet or toy out for their “guest” as a token of good will. This would likely stop its mischief if it liked the gifts. Perhaps it would even start doing good deeds around the house (like helping to find the car keys, instead of hiding them).

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Another couple had a young toddler that was plagued by bad dreams. They felt that malevolent spirits were disturbing his sleep. They wanted to find or create a guardian spirit for him. Hopefully it could also serve as an “imaginary” friend and playmate to keep their son company.

I told them about Eleggua, a spirit or orisha in the Santerian pantheon with a child form. I suggested they ask Eleggua to watch over their son. I also told them how my mother had created a guardian spirit for me, based on “Puff, the Magic Dragon.” Puff made such a difference in my childhood, keeping night terrors at bay!

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Another person spoke of Drawing Down the Moon (a Wiccan technique). She could feel the Goddess enter her body, thrilling at the power She conveyed by Her presence. But this priestess was frustrated that she just couldn’t seem to remember the lines of ritual she had memorized, lines that the Goddess was supposed to speak.

I pointed out the futility of invoking a Goddess only to try to tell her what She was “supposed” to say! The whole point of bringing a deity down into the physical plane is to listen to what She wishes to communicate, not the other way around. It apparently hadn’t occurred to anyone involved in the creation of the ritual that it was rude to try to tell a Goddess what to do!

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Praise for:

On the Care and Feeding of Spirits:

Excellent! This is what I've been experiencing my whole life. You have a great knack for linking things together — recognized authorities, theories and definitions, and accepted schools of thought, with the "new,"controversial," spiritual concepts you're presenting. Great real-life examples. This is really advanced stuff, yet presented in a very down-to-earth, practical and understandable way… AND with welcome humor and light-heartedness! So true! So great to see it in print! — Helen — Energy Worker

The Patriot's Spell Book:

Excellent job!…. I hope all the Spells for Democracy crowd will consider it required reading…. From studies by groups working on cosmic consciousness, alternative modes of prayer, etc., we only need about the square root of 1% of the population to start the ball rolling, and the effect increases as we gain support over that amount. — Donnaich

Praise for Vivienne D'Avalon:

Here in Orlando, I have had 3 teachers, and you have been the best teacher I have had…. You are excellent at explaining complicated concepts and what's more important, you are a very loving person and that comes through when you teach. I was very blessed and honored to have you as my guiding light…. I really enjoyed it and I learned so much! :D You are an excellent teacher. — Carla — Artist

I'm just glad to see a different kind of magic… the intellectual aspect is absolutely fascinating…. I'm also very glad to be introduced to Gods and Goddesses that I'm not familiar with…. Your knowledge, expertise, and talent goes a long way!! … It's always fun and interesting when you expose your brain!! You're awesome! — Ronda — Massage Therapist and Reiki Practitioner

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Thank you for your kind attention. Have a wonderful holiday season!

BB,

Vivienne D'Avalon


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